Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Chris

So statistics here at Yokota have it that two out of three Airmen will get married during their tour here. I did not come to Japan thinking that I would be part of that statistic, but I also did not think that I would meet someone like Christopher Lilley.


Chris and I worked together in the Urgent Care and got to know each other well. We would hang out quite frequently on our off days, and even when we were not on shift together, we would talk every day.  Long story short, we decided to get married. On June 9th we went down to the courthouse in Fussa. Once there, we found out that two Americans getting married in Japan was a bit more difficult than we anticipated. We had to translate the paperwork as well as our birth certificates.  We started the process at about 9:30 AM and were running around pulling favor cards until 4:30 PM when we walked back into the courthouse with all our translated documents and an hour later, walked out as husband and wife.


We then went to The Black Teahouse in the foothills, about 30 mins away, where we were treated to an amazing 8 course traditional Japanese feast with some close friends. Tonya Toche-Howard is a Nurse that we work with who has been a mentor and a friend to both of us and signed as one of our witnesses. Juan Garcia signed as our second witness. Chris and him have been friends since they both arrived here about two years ago. We like to hang out with Juan and Rosemary. They got married a few months after Chris and I and now live two floors below us in our tower.

Chris and I lived in the dorms for about three weeks before we had a favor card pulled for us and got offered a three-bedroom tower apartment. I was wary at first, but after we walked through it and found out we had a view of Mt. Fugi, we could see ourselves in the apartment life. Once we moved all our things in and began to decorate, it was a lot easier to call our 8th floor apartment Home.


A little more about Chris:

Chris is 22, from West Virginia (but born in Pennsylvania), and moved around the lower half of the US when he was younger.  His birthday is 23 December and he has three older sisters and three younger brothers (One older sister and two younger brothers by blood). In high school he was in ROTC and led the rifle team. He even got to go to Nationals for shooting. After high school, he and his two best friends joined the Air Force. He was originally supposed to be a SERE Specialist (Survival Extraction Resistance and Escape), but he got re-classed into being a Medic. Yokota was his first duty station after training. He is witty, charming, stubborn, and he makes me laugh.